tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6860053.post5400011817599888296..comments2023-09-09T12:04:23.106-04:00Comments on sub french: On the nature of dealsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6860053.post-64141502114018482812007-06-06T22:45:00.000-04:002007-06-06T22:45:00.000-04:00Yeah, I can understand not liking blowjobs in that...Yeah, I can understand not liking blowjobs in that case. Most definitely.<BR/><BR/>In any case, it's not really the sexual preference I have a problem with (I don't exactly have a lot of room to judge, yanno? ;)), it's the lack of accounting for it. It's like, fuck people, pay attention. If this person means anything to you - and it doesn't have to be love or anything, it could just be something entirely different - then why aren't you doing anything about it?<BR/><BR/>Anyway, glad to know you liked it - I was having a hard time wrapping words around the feelings; seems like I at least got a little of it!frenchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12104644567237371305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6860053.post-50191077311037960522007-06-05T19:23:00.000-04:002007-06-05T19:23:00.000-04:00Have to say, my ex was one of those men who didn't...Have to say, my ex was one of those men who didn't like BJ's. But I assumed it was because of his sexual abuse. His stepfather used to do that to him when he was little so...yeah, the connection later in his adult life was just too strong; the few times he let me try, he couldn't come. I only put 2 and 2 together many years later when he finally told me about the abuse.<BR/><BR/>So. Sometimes it's because the person can't get over their hangup, you know?<BR/><BR/>That being said, I totally agree with you about doing your best to pleasure the other person if you don't have some kind of dire past experience about it and not making everything sexual into some kind of "chore". That can take the fun and intimacy out of sex in a huge hurry, you're right. Good post, thanks. :) <BR/><BR/>Oh and I read Post Secret too and I have a Post Secret book Dan gave me as well. :)Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12275774046219836099noreply@blogger.com